You may need to consider the groom and bride speeches together, when it comes to the speeches for your wedding day.
This does not mean, writing the speeches together, as this would spoil the surprise. But what is a good idea is to chat and discuss the broad guidelines and direction each of you may want to take with the speeches.
Decide on Who All Making Speech
Like any other speech, it is very important to get your moments and stories correct and making sure that one speech is not repeating what the other has already covered. This is one big reason why it makes sense that the groom and bride sit together and discuss the wedding speech ideas.
At times, all grooms and bride do make separate speeches. Only one of you can do a speech or both of you can do a joint speech. Before going ahead, it is very important that you discuss these points before moving to the next steps.
Preparing the Perfect Speech
Once you have decided about who all are making the speech, then it is a good idea to talk to your bride and discuss on the steps on preparing the speech. The intent is to avoid covering the same idea twice, unless both the groom and bride intend to bring a different perspective on the same topic. This can provide a funny and humorous moments which your guests will love.
You can even do a combined speech where one share the incident and other person can bring in his/her perspective.
I would not recommend sharing all speech with the better half, but sharing some of the idea's will allows both the speeches to feed on each other and make a memorable and lasting impact on the audience.
You can also check out some speech examples that make your wedding speech all that memorable.
